The Spirit of Christmas

Are you one of the women who never hear the magic words I love you from your husband? Do not rush to convict husband. Because most men would show her affection with the actions and deeds, for example with your pickup for work or social gathering, brought by the-by, when you complain massaging tired or dizzy. There are several reasons why men do not express his affection to your partner through words. This is usually associated with the character of the man.

1. Saying I love you, “is the same as offering a commitment. For many men, love is expressed through action, so that these words are the promises about what his next move. Only by responding to greeting you, men will feel he must approve its support of you. For example , married, bought houses, and so forth.

2. In couples who are still in the courtship stage, men are reluctant to pronounce the sentence because it is not sure whether he is truly like each other. For them, the word love should be spoken from the heart, sincerely, not just to please their partners (although some are doing this).

3. Other men do tend to be difficult to express his feelings. People who are not accustomed since childhood to parents express affection through words, when adults also tend to like it. For him, it’s better love shown through action, or meet the needs of couples. For example, the time to accompany you shopping at the supermarket, even though he did not like it.

4. Another man who do not want to seem whiny by saying those words, especially when caught saying it in front of his friends. If he knew her social environment including those having the same habit, maybe she will do it. If not, better not look for trouble.

5. The man who never faced a failure in connection, such as divorce, child custody fight, and the like, will also be thinking much longer to add new commitments into itself (see number 1). He would choose to be more careful, because they do not want to hurt your feelings, and repeat the same mistakes.